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THE ESSENTIAL OF GODLY LEADERSHIP 1 TIMOTHY 3:1-13 Pastor Stephen Muncherian February 7, 2010 |
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We’re going to start with a
short video clip to help us get focused. As
you’re
watching
this
think
about what’s essential. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zBnNfTa0_Jc With friends like that… How essential are essentials? On past Sundays we’ve talked
about Merced being a broken city. We’ve
agreed that Jesus is the only answer for the brokenness of this city. That our living out and sharing the Gospel is
crucial. The bottom line of why we as a
congregation - why we’re here. We’ve been talking about
essentials - the essentials of the church. What
is
absolutely
essential
for
us if we’re to be the congregation that God
has called us to be. To be a congregation
that God can use in taking His gospel into the places where we live
life. Where people are hurting to know for
Jesus. Point being that if we lack an
essential - or we’re out of balance - emphasizing one essential over
another - or just kind of sliding by - living the status quo - hanging
on to our comfort zone - really not put our heart and soul into doing
what is essential - we’re setting ourselves up for failure as a
congregation - failure to be who God has called us together to be. Which isn’t something to take be
taken lightly. “Oh well.” Failure on our part means people
are still living on a trajectory towards hell. Failure
on
our
part
means
continued brokenness in the lives of people we deeply
care about. Failure means that people will
look at the church and see us and not God. Christians
may
even
give
up
on the church as a place of security - nurture -
growth - as a congregation to serve God with. The reason essentials are
essential is because they’re essential. Over the past few Sundays we’ve
been looking at Paul’s first letter to Timothy. We’ve
looked
at
the
essentials
of love, faith, Godly men, and Godly women. Today
we’re coming to The Essential of Godly Leadership. Let’s
try
that
together,
“The
essential of Godly leadership.” Please turn with me to 1 Timothy
3. When Paul writes this letter to
Timothy - Timothy is pastoring in Ephesus. Ephesus was a large city. A
crossroads
and
port
city. A tourist
destination. A political and religious
center. It was city where sin was part of
the culture. Prostitution was part of
their religion. Satanists, witches,
worship of a Mother Goddess of the Earth - practices we see in the New
Age Movement today - all were openly a part of the scene in Ephesus. Maybe
called
by
different
names. But very much a
part of Ephesian culture. The entire city indulged in
sin - so much so that we could say that sin was politically correct. Sound
familiar? In Ephesus it was hard to be a
Christian. In the church - there was a great need for Godly
leadership. But, in looking in 1 Timothy
and elsewhere in
Scripture - we’ve been seeing that that - for
the most part - the
leadership of the Ephesian church was as corrupt as the society they
were living in. The leadership of the Ephesian
church is described as men who had rejected their faith.
They’d become shipwrecked spiritually.
They were teaching all kinds of strange doctrines that
mixed human philosophy and different religious beliefs and traditions
in with the Gospel. Does that sound
familiar? With all these interfaith
movements and confusion
about
what
gospel
really
is? The result was that the church
was being led around and around in fruitless discussions over secondary
issues. It was lacking in purpose and
vision - in Godly direction. They were focused on
themselves. People were dying spiritually and hurting each
other. The one thing the church wasn’t
doing was penetrating Ephesus with the Gospel.
Before we go on, we need to
understand what Paul means by “the office
of overseer.” Many people have the idea that Paul is talking
about pastors, priests, bishops, or some kind of church governing
structure with a professional clergy at the top - or seemingly at the
top.
Professional clergy do the job of the ministry while lay
people cough up the money to support them. The Greek word for “overseer” is
“episkopos.” Same
word
we
get
“episcopal”
from. Looking at
the Episcopal Church - the Anglican Church - we can see how the
Episcopalians have adopted this professional top down model of
leadership. A professional hierarchy
ruling over the church. What Paul is describing is
different. In fact Paul could have very easily
stepped into that kind of role of leadership and yet over and over
again he continually rejected it. In the New Testament there’s never a
description of this massive professional top down governing structure over a church or churches that some churches have fallen
into.
That structure just doesn’t exist in Scripture. In
reality that “top down” structure - professional clergy verses laity -
all that is antithetical to the whole teaching concerning Spiritual
Gifts - how God gifts and desires to use each one of us together in His
ministry. Overseers could be someone with
the gift pastor or teacher or administration or helps or mercy or any
other spiritual gift. “Episkopos” - “overseer” is a technical term that describes a
position or office in the church - a leadership role in the
congregation. The ministry description of
that office is someone
who
has oversight
over the ministry of a congregation by watching over it - guarding it -
shepherding it - guiding it - protecting the ministry of the
congregation. Not someone who exercises
ruling authority over the congregation. Are we together? Closely related to “overseer” - used almost interchangeably
in Scripture is the
word “elder.” The
Greek
word
is
“presbuterios”
which is where we get our English word
“presbyterian.” “Presbuterios” was how the
Greeks translated the Hebrew word “zaqen” which literally meant “to
have a beard.” Point being is that an elder is
someone who is elderly - at least old enough to have a beard. To be an elder was to have a position of
leadership in the Hebrew nation - a position of leadership that was
based on age and experience. Someone that
had been around the block a few times. An elder - someone who was older
- became an elder - leader in the nation - as people recognized their
gifts of leadership and wisdom and justice as well has their age. An “elder” was
set apart to administer justice, settle disputes, and guide people
under his charge. The elders were the
counselors of the king - the governing council of the town - the heads
and leaders of the tribes of Israel. In
New Testament times they were the members of the Sanhedrin - the Hebrew
Supreme Court. Still with me?
This will get clearer. I hope. Putting all that together - elders and
overseers - an overseer is someone that the people recognize has having
the elder experience necessary to put them into this position - this
office of oversight - as an overseer - in the nation - or in the New
Testament - the church. When Paul writes to Titus - who
was pastoring on the island of Crete - Paul tells Titus to appoint
“elders” to the office of “overseer.” (Titus 1:5-9) What
Paul
is
saying
is
that within the local church God is raising up men -
“elders” - to this position of -
“overseer.” When we want to find people qualified to be
overseers - we need to look for elders. We need to also observe
that there’s no example anywhere in Scripture of an elder being a women. There were leaders - prophetesses and Deborah
who was a judge and Esther who played a huge role in Hebrew history -
women who for a time gave counsel or took roles of leadership in the
nation. But the elders - those who led the
nation in that role - the elders were men. That fits the pattern of
Scripture from the Fatherhood of God through the headship of Adam - the
patriarchs - Abraham, Isaac, Jacob - through Hebrew history down to
Jesus - Son of God - Son of Man - Head of the Church. In the New Testament there were
a number of women disciples. Numbers of
women followed Jesus closely as He traveled around Judea.
Some were His close associates. They
were
respected. They were honored.
They were integral to the ministry. Later,
women
came
to
have significant roles of
ministry in the church. Jesus could have appointed a
women to be one or all of His Twelve Apostles. But
He
didn’t. When the church came to replace
Judas - they choose Matthias - a man. That
pattern is consistent through out Scripture. All that may make some people
uncomfortable. But if Godly men would step
up to the plate taking leadership in the congregation - sacrificial
headship - as Godly men - women would feel a whole lot more secure and
we’d probably have a whole lot less uncomfortableness. Bottom
line: Elders
were
spiritually mature
men
who
had
proven
themselves over and over again - and so gained the
respect to be called “elders” -
to be placed into this role - this office of overseer in the church. Paul writing to Timothy -
pasturing in a difficult city - with a church focused on itself -
overrun with men claiming to be teachers who were teaching all kinds of
nonsense - how was the church suppose to weed through all
those “wannbe” overseers - to get the right men in the
right place - to avoid spiritual disaster - to move forward taking the
gospel into Ephesus - Paul writes about the essential of Godly
leadership. How do we recognize men
qualified for the office of overseer? Who
qualifies for the office? If we - here at
Creekside - if we encourage people into leadership who are not
spiritually qualified to be in leadership - it’ll be a disaster for
them - for us - for the ministry of the gospel - failure. Verse 2: The Qualifications For Overseers. Let’s
say
that
together,
“The
qualifications for overseers.” How do we recognize the men God
is raising up to spiritual leadership. Walk with me through these. Verse 2: An overseer,
then, must be above reproach Stand up for God and we become a target.
Godly leaders will be accused of wrongdoing.
Above reproach means the accusation has no basis - it
won’t stick. It doesn’t mean that an
overseer hasn’t ever done anything wrong. We’d
all
be
trouble
if
that was true. But, it
means that the sin has been dealt with honestly - openly - moving the
man forward in the pursuit of godliness. Next - The overseer
is the husband of one wife There’s some discussion about
what this means. What about a divorced man
or a widower or a single man? The culture of Ephesus was kind
of like ours today - where the commitment of marriage didn’t mean a
whole lot. At least they still realized
that marriage was between a man and a women - sort of.
People went from marriage to marriage to marriage to
marriage without thinking about it to much. People
had
mistresses. Prostitution was a way of
life. Paul’s point is that a man with
elder material is not bouncing flippantly from marriage to marriage. He’s living by the Biblical commands for what
marriage is. He’s not an adulterer. He’s
a one woman
man - committed to one woman - his wife - whom he loves sacrificially. The overseer
is temperate - which means he’s calm - not jumping from one
thing to another - prudent - meaning self controlled - able to keep
his mouth shut - respectable - he has order and purpose to
his life - hospitable - he’s open to strangers and promotes fellowship in the
church. The overseer
is able to teach There are godly men who fulfill
the other requirements but they’re not gifted to teach.
Overseers teach. That’s crucial because overseers are to
be able to explain the Scriptures and to correct those who misuse or
misunderstand them. They watch over the congregation
by keeping the congregation focused on God’s truth. There’s a second idea here too -
overseers must be teachable. In order to
teach they need to first be in the Scriptures themselves - growing in
their own relationship
with God - open to instruction. Going on - verse 3:
The overseer is not addicted to wine or pugnacious - meaning violent - maybe as result of
being drunk - but gentle - desiring to work through
problems in a reasonable way - peaceable - he’s not stirring
up
trouble
in
the
congregation - free from
the love of money - not free of money - but free
from being consumed by pursuing wealth. Verse 4: He must be
one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under
control with all dignity (but if a man does not know how to manage his
own household, how will he take care of the church of God?).
Which is a tremendous test of
how a man will handle problems in the church. That
may
come
as
a
surprise to some people. But
it happens. Some times God’s people
struggle as they seek to together follow God. If
this
man
is
an
overseer will he
run away from
problems and issues and people or will
he
deal with them
in love and grace -
applying God given wisdom? Verse 6: and not a
new convert, so that he will not become conceited and fall into the
condemnation incurred by the devil. Which means that - first - he
must have a personal
saving
relationship
with
Jesus
Christ.
He
needs to have received God’s gift of salvation offered through Jesus -
must have turned from his life apart from God - from sin - and turned
to God - trusting Jesus as His Savior - giving his life to God. Second - he needs to have a track record. Evidence
of
an
ongoing
-
growing - deepening - having gone through the stuff of
life - relationship with God. A new convert may mean well - wanting to serve. But too
quickly
put
into
leadership
its too easy to
become impressed with our
position rather than to be impressed with God and His graciousness
towards us. Its too easy - given the pressures of the
position - as a target for Satan on the front lines of the spiritual
battle - too easy to seek the approval of others rather than God’s
approval. Too easy to go along with the
opinions of our friends in the church rather than following God - doing
what may be right even though its not popular. It’s dangerous to move people too
quickly into leadership - dangerous for them - dangerous for the church. Verse 7: And he must
have a good reputation with those outside the church, so that he will
not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.
An overseer isn’t a Sunday
Christian. Know what I mean?
Game face on for Sunday - righteous clothes - righteous
vocabulary - Bible tucked under the arm - kids lined up - faces
polished - the wife looks like Snow White. Great
image. Monday he’s swearing up a storm
- ripping people off at work - flirting with the ladies.
Its pathetic how many Christians there are that we’d never
know they’re Christians by their behavior at work or school - outside
of the congregation. For a Godly man -
what you see is…. what you get. A Godly
man doesn’t have a hidden life that Satan can tap into and use to
destroy the testimony of the Gospel. Those are the qualifications for
overseers. Godly
Men - raised
up
by
God
-
obedient to God in how they live their lives - guiding the
congregation by their teaching and own life example.
Godly Men
of prayer who teach God’s Word and hold the congregation accountable to
live in obedience to God. (Acts 20:18-35; Hebrews 13:7; 1 Peter 5:1-4) In verse 8, Paul turns to the
office of Deacon. Like overseer - deacon is an office - a
position of ministry in the congregation. In Acts 6 (Acts 6:1-7) we read that a problem came up
in the Jerusalem church. The church had
gone in size from being a handful of disciples to a community numbering
in the thousands. The Apostles tried. But, they couldn’t keep up with the needs of
that many people. So a problem came up. The church had a food distribution ministry - a
way of caring for needy people. But,
certain widows were not being adequately cared for. When they brought this problem
to the Apostles -
who are in the role of overseer - the Apostles told them to choose 7 men - and they gave
certain qualifications - how to choose these men - 7 men who were appointed to a position of
ministry that was to take
care
of
the
problem. Then the Apostles - in the role of overseers -
the Apostles said, “It’s not
right for us to neglect the preaching of God’s word in order to serve
tables.” (Acts 6:2) That word “serve” is “diakonos” - which is where we get our
English word? “deacon” from.
This is the first time we see the ministry of deacons in
the church.
Verse 8 to 13 focus on The Qualifications For Deacons. Let’s
say
that
together,
“The
qualifications for deacons.” How do we recognize the men and
women whom God is raising up to serve as deacons? Verse 8: Deacons
likewise must be men of dignity - serious - not
double-tongued - talking out of both sides of
their mouths - not
to be given to pleasing people by saying one thing to one person and
another thing to someone else. Deacons
speak the truth. Deacons are not addicted to
much wine - they’re
not alcoholics - or fond of
sordid gain - not
taking advantage of situations to gain money - especially if their
going to be in situations where they’re going to be discretely handling
the church’s money. Verse 9: but holding
to the mystery of the faith - a deacon must have a testimony of a personal
relationship with Jesus Christ. He or she
believes the Gospel - with a clear
conscience - a
deacon lives what they profess to believe. Verse 10: These men
must also first be tested; then let them serve as deacons if they are
beyond reproach. A man shouldn’t be shoved into a
position of responsibility without first being given some initial
assignment and being watched to see how he does. Verse 11: Women must
likewise be dignified - same word as with the men - serious - not
malicious gossips -
malicious meaning that they use information to slander others - not that anyone would ever do
that - but
temperate, faithful in all things - responsible - trustworthy - someone who you can
count on to follow through. Verse 12: Deacons must
be husbands of only one wife, and good managers of their children and
their own households. We talked about this with regard
to overseers. For those
who have served well as deacons obtain for themselves a high standing
and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus. In too many churches today, leaders are selected based on popularity - or because of their
financial status - or
their
education
-
or
because they’ve faithfully been doing some
ministry around the church for years. Maybe they’ve just been around longer than
anyone else. Or, maybe they’re the only one who’s
volunteered. “We gotta
fill the slots cause the Bylaw say we need someone in that position.” So we’ll take anybody who’s naive enough to step forward. The Head of the Church is Jesus. It’s His Church. His
ministry
not
ours. When looking for Godly
leaders - if we’re going to move forward as a church - we need to
recognize those God is raising up to leadership - those that God
qualifies. Leadership not focused on
themselves - or maintaining the status quo - focused on church
activities -
administrating the work of the church. But
leadership
that
will
lead
us spiritually
-
that will lead us forward with God because they themselves are
being led forward by God. Taking this further - look back with me to verse 1. Paul writes, “If any man
aspires to the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do.” Then in verse 8, “Deacons
likewise.” Meaning that what Paul writes
about overseers in verse 1 is the same reality for deacons. There are two words here in
verse 1 that we need to understand. First is “aspire.”
Greek word “orego” Kind of
like Oreo with a “G”. Which means to
stretch. To stretch out after something -
to lay ourselves out - total commitment - reaching farther than we
thought possible - to stretch out with a great desire to grab onto to
something. Second is “desire.”
In Greek its “epithumei.” Which
is
two
Greek
words
stuck together to make one word. “epi”
which
means
“over” or like above and beyond. And
“thumos” which has the idea of hot
passionate desire or anger coming right out of our hearts - the core of
who we are. Think about Jesus in the
Temple - seeing how the money changers had turned God’s house of prayer
into a bazaar - selling animals needed for sacrifices and gouging
people on the exchange rate - ripping people off. Jesus
-
with
zeal
-
passion - anger - from deep within - taking a whip and
knocking over tables - pouring money all over the place - driving the
money changers out of the temple. (John
2:13-17) Our
Bylaws
-
under
qualifications for officers and Board members lists a
whole lot of Scripture. First on that list
is 1 Timothy 3:1-13. Our Bylaws sate that “The Pastor
must meet the scriptural qualifications outlined in 1 Timothy 3:1-7.” Which
isn’t
a
bad
thing. In fact it’s a very
good thing. But way too often we get caught
up in these lists of qualifications - stop there - and think that if we
find someone who meets these qualifications we’ve found someone who can
be put into leadership. And that’s just
not true. Behind the qualifications are
“aspire” and “desire” - the qualification. The
heart
of
a
Godly
man or women who is totally committed to their
relationship with God - stretching forward - reaching for godliness -
poured out before God - passionate in desire coming from the core of
who they are - passionate about moving forward in their relationship
with God - in being surrendered to Him - trusting Him fully with their
lives - allowing God to shape them and mold them and use them -
according to His purposes - for His honor - for His glory.
Paul says - to do the work of an overseer is
a good thing. Paul writes that those who
have served well as deacons obtain for themselves a high standing and
great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.
Serving
God transforms our lives. Gives us the
confidence in our relationship with God that we need to live life. Church leadership is the most
exciting job on earth. “It’s not
just a job. It’s an adventure.” To
be in the center of what God is doing on earth - as His human channel
through which the mind and will of the living God is active in the
lives of His people - what they can do and how they can move forward
accomplishing His ministry - goes beyond the ability to put into words. It’s never dull. It
is
a
noble
-
honorable - purposeful task. We miss all that when we look at
a list and not a life. Being
a
leader
in
God’s
congregation is a privilege to be sought after as an
extension of a life passionately desiring after God - not a burden to
be avoided at all costs. Imagine the next time the
nominating committee goes out looking for volunteers and finds the
whole congregation full of people passionately desiring to serve. As the Church - God calls us to
penetrate the world
- Merced - with
Gospel of Jesus Christ. To do that it’s
essential that we have Godly leadership - Godly men and women who are
aspiring and desiring. Two questions: First: What
are
you
aspiring
to? Second: What
do you desire? _________________________ Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture taken from the NEW AMERICAN STANDARD BIBLE ®, Copyright © 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by the Lockman Foundation. Used by permission. |